How to Talk to Your Daycare About Baby Containers (Without the Awkwardness)
As a pediatric physical therapist and mom of three, I know how nerve-wracking it can feel to bring up container use with your daycare provider. You want to advocate for your baby’s development, but you also want to maintain a positive relationship with the people caring for your babies every day.
Let’s talk through exactly how you can navigate this conversation with confidence and kindness.
Why Container Use Matters
Before we dive into the how, it’s important to understand why limiting container time matters. Baby containers (like swings, bouncers, and exersaucers) can be helpful tools in moderation, but overuse can restrict natural movement and slow gross motor development.
If you haven’t already, check out my blog post on Baby Container Syndrome to understand the developmental impact and get a full breakdown of what I recommend instead.
Start the Conversation Early (If You Can)
Ideally, you can ask questions about container use before your child starts daycare. Some great questions to ask during your initial tour or interview:
“How often do you use baby containers throughout the day?”
“How do you incorporate floor time or tummy time into the routine?”
“Which types of containers do you typically use?”
These early conversations set the tone and help you choose a daycare that aligns with what you feel comfortable with.
What If Your Baby Is Already Enrolled?
It's never too late to start this conversation! If you’re starting to notice signs of overuse (like less time on the floor or reports of frequent container use), it’s absolutely okay to speak up. The key is to be honest, specific, and work together.
Tips for Talking to Your Daycare About Container Use
Lead with Respect and Appreciation. Acknowledge that caring for multiple babies is no easy task. Let them know you appreciate the care they provide and that you understand containers can be a practical necessity at times.
Be Clear About Your Preferences. You might say something like, “I know containers are sometimes necessary, but I’d love if floor time could be the priority whenever possible. Ideally, I’d prefer container time to be kept under 15–20 minutes at a time.”
Offer Alternatives. If you have a preference for one type of container over another, feel free to say so! For example: “If you need to use something for a few minutes, I’d be more comfortable with a static exersaucer over a jumper.”
Set Boundaries Gently & Clearly. You can also provide a simple list of containers you are okay with them using and containers you would prefer not be used. A quick note or email is an easy way to get your daycare providers this info in writing.
Check In and Revisit as Needed. This doesn’t have to be a one-time conversation. Feel free to check in after a few weeks and see how things are going. Keeping those lines of communication open helps everyone feel supported.
Remember: You’re Not Being “Too Much”
You’re advocating for your baby’s development, and that’s your job. In my experience, most daycare providers want what’s best for your child too and are more than willing to accommodate when the request is made respectfully.
Want to See the Containers I Do Recommend?
Check out my Amazon storefront where I’ve linked my favorite baby containers that support developmentally appropriate movement. I’ve included options that are practical, safe, and used in moderation, won’t hinder your baby’s gross motor milestones.
Final Thoughts
Having these conversations doesn’t have to feel confrontational. When you approach daycare staff with respect, clarity, and a developmental perspective, you're not just protecting your baby’s movement, you’re building a stronger partnership with their caregivers.
You’ve got this, and I’m cheering you on every step of the way.
Looking for Motor Milestone Support?
For developmental questions, tips and guidance related to milestones about tummy time, rolling & sitting, crawling and walking, check out KC’s developmental Masterclasses linked here.
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